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04 — Your day, stage by stage

How your day unfolds.

A planning guide for brides and couples: what happens, how long each part takes, the photographs worth making, and how the light shapes it all. Timings are typical — your day gets its own plan.
  1. A young boy pulls a funny face as his buttonhole is pinned

    01 — 12–18 months before

    Enquiry & first chat

    Tell me your date, venue and what matters most. We talk through the day, photography, film or both, and whether it feels like a good fit.

    The photographs

    • Nothing yet — just save photographs you love from the portfolio and send them with your enquiry.

    Tip · Popular summer Saturdays go first. Enquire as soon as the venue is confirmed.

  2. Two wedding rings resting on pale blue hydrangea petals

    02 — 4–8 weeks before

    Planning the timeline

    We go through the running order together: timings, family group list, key people, and where the light will be at your venue at each point of the day.

    The photographs

    • Agree a short family group list (8–10 groupings keeps it to about 20 minutes).
    • Name anyone who must not be missed — grandparents, godchildren, best friends.

    Tip · Ask your venue what time sunset is on your date and where the ceremony room faces.

  3. A smiling bride looks out from the window of the wedding car

    03 — Morning · 2–3 hours before the ceremony

    Getting ready

    I arrive while hair and make-up are finishing. Nobody is posed — I photograph the nerves, the laughs and the helpers as they happen.

    The photographs

    • Details: dress hanging, shoes, rings, flowers, letters.
    • Your mum, bridesmaids or kids watching the final touches.
    • Buttons, laces, veil — the last fastening.
    • A first look with dad or a parent, if you'd like one.

    Tip · Get ready in the brightest, least cluttered room, near a large window. Keep the dress out of plastic.

  4. A bride and groom laugh together in a weathered timber doorway

    04 — 20–45 minutes

    The ceremony

    Photographed quietly, without flash, from discreet positions agreed with your registrar or minister.

    The photographs

    • The walk down the aisle and the first glance between you.
    • Reactions in the front rows.
    • Vows, rings, the first kiss.
    • Signing the register and the walk back out.

    Tip · Ask for an 'unplugged' ceremony so guests' phones don't block the aisle. Pause for a second at the first kiss.

  5. A bride enters a church through a bright arched doorway

    05 — 60–90 minutes

    Drinks reception & family groups

    The most relaxed part of the day. Family groups are done briskly from your list, then I go back to documenting guests, children and conversations.

    The photographs

    • Confetti exit.
    • Hugs, laughter and candid guest moments.
    • Family groups, largest to smallest.
    • Children doing what children do.

    Tip · Give a confident usher the group list so people are ready when called.

  6. A couple walk away through a long-grass meadow towards wooded hills

    06 — 15–25 minutes, plus optional 10 at golden hour

    Just the two of you

    A short walk away from guests. Prompts rather than poses — walk, talk, hold each other — so it feels like a breather, not a photoshoot.

    The photographs

    • Walking together through the grounds.
    • Close, quiet portraits in open shade.
    • A wide frame with the venue or landscape around you.
    • Golden-hour light just before sunset, if timings allow.

    Tip · Most couples say this was their favourite 20 minutes of the day. Protect it in your timeline.

  7. A guest gives a speech into a microphone in warm window light

    07 — 2–2½ hours

    Wedding breakfast & speeches

    Room details before guests enter, then speeches photographed for the reactions as much as the speakers.

    The photographs

    • The room set and untouched.
    • Your entrance.
    • Laughter and tears during speeches.
    • Cake cutting.

    Tip · Speeches before the meal relax nervous speakers — and give better light.

  8. A couple embrace as the sun sets behind trees

    08 — Evening · 1–2 hours of coverage

    Evening & first dance

    First dance, the dance floor filling up, and the last of the light outside.

    The photographs

    • First dance and the guests watching.
    • A packed dance floor.
    • Sparklers or a final exit, if planned.

    Tip · Schedule the first dance soon after the evening guests arrive, so coverage can end on a high.

  9. A portrait of a bride in a tiara and veil

    09 — Afterwards

    After the wedding

    Your photographs are carefully edited for natural skin tones and faithful colour, and delivered in an online gallery to share and download. Film is edited separately. Current delivery times are confirmed when you book.

    The photographs

    • A full documentary set of the day, from first fastening to last dance.

    Tip · Back up your gallery downloads in two places.

Plan your timings

Your day, drafted in a minute.

Three answers give you a sensible first timeline, including when the light is best. It’s a starting point — we refine it together.

Reception
  1. 11:00

    Photography begins — getting ready

    Details, hair and make-up finishing, quiet moments with family.

  2. 12:45

    Into the dress

    Allow a calm half hour; it rarely takes less.

  3. 13:30

    Ceremony

    Usually 20–40 minutes. No flash, no fuss.

  4. 14:00

    Confetti and drinks reception

    Mostly unposed — guests, hugs and laughter.

  5. 14:20

    Family group photos

    About 20 minutes for a well-prepared list of 8–10 groups.

  6. 14:45

    Portraits of the two of you

    About 20 minutes together, away from the crowd.

  7. 16:00

    Wedding breakfast

    Entrances and the room; we pause while you eat.

  8. 17:30

    Speeches

    Reactions matter as much as the speakers.

  9. 19:30

    First dance

    Then a little of the evening party before we leave.

  10. 20:50

    Golden-hour walk

    Sunset is around 21:35. Ten minutes outside is plenty.

Enquire about your date with this timeline

Sunset times are approximate for the region.

Reading the light

How the light is judged.

Four questions asked at every venue, on every walk, before every portrait.

Direction
Where the sun is relative to you. Soft side-light flatters; harsh overhead midday sun gets avoided by moving into open shade.
Quality
Bright overcast days are a gift — even, soft light with no squinting. Full sun means finding shade, trees or a building's shadow.
Time of day
The hour before sunset (golden hour) is warm and low. In winter it can arrive as early as 3pm, so we plan around it.
Indoors
Large windows and pale walls do the work. I check the ceremony and breakfast rooms ahead, and only use discreet flash in the evening.

Best spots, venue by venue

Each venue guide suggests where to go for your portraits, based on what the venue offers. We confirm the plan together on a walk-round or call.

A bride and groom stand with ponies in a field at golden hour

Enquiries · Photography & film

Let’s plan your day.

Your wedding, your way

Let’s capture your day.

Still deciding? Approximate dates and venues are welcome.

Saved inspiration

Nothing saved yet. Use Save on any photograph in the portfolio — your picks stay on this device and can be sent with an enquiry.